Regain Your Relationship Mojo
Even if you’re deeply in love with your partner, there will be times when it feels like you are miles apart. This is natural, but that doesn’t make it any less uncomfortable. To help you maintain a healthy and peaceful relationship, you can use Feng Shui. As with any relationship, energy shifts are par for the course. But that doesn’t mean you simply need to endure them in order to regain your relationship mojo. Why not try to keep the peace all the time?
When the Waters are Rough
Things happen in every relationship that make us upset at the other person. But in order to restore the happiness we crave, we need to realize that changes are necessary. As a couple, you can use these Feng Shui techniques to begin to smooth out the rough patches.
Start by looking at the relationship corner of every room in your home or apartment ? this is the further right hand corner from the doorway. If things are messy and cluttered, it might be time for some cleaning. Any chaos in these areas is going to hinder the proper energy flow of your relationship. Take some time every day to ensure these areas are clear and clean. You will also want to look in this area to see if you have any singular images or items present. These can often stimulate the energy of singular-ness, which is the opposite of what you want in your relationship.
Together, you might also want to buy a plant that you can nurture together, just as you want to nurture your relationship. By taking care of the plant on a daily basis, you can boost the energy that cultivates your own relationship to each other. Take turns watering the plant and caring for it ? but also take time to nurture the plant together.
Open up the windows of your bedroom as often as you can to let in healthy new energy. The breeze will help you move out any stagnant energy, while also infusing your space with peace. This is also a good time to look around for anything that might be broken in your home. Broken items attract negative and broken energy ? not what you want when your relationship is suffering. Get rid of these items or fix them.
In addition, you will want to remove anything from your home that might remind you of bad times in your relationship. These items are only attracting negative energy back into your relationship - who needs that?
Long Term Happiness is Simple
Yes, you can live happily ever after. But you still need to do some work in order to guarantee it. First of all, you want to nurture steady energy in your relationship ? never too high or too low. You can begin to enhance this steadiness by adding neutral colors to your bedroom. This doesn?t mean you can’t have any bright colors, but you should try to balance that color scheme overall. In addition, if your bedroom is too feminine or too masculine, you will want to balance this out as well. You want your bedroom to be as neutral as possible, balancing out the energies of your relationship.
Try buying new bed sheets to help improve the energy of your relationship from this point forward. Choosing the bed sheets together will help you feel rejuvenated and renewed. And start collecting pictures of your good times together as these will help you whenever the times get tough again. Keep your bedroom door open too, as much as possible, to let in new energy and keep your romance alive.
No matter what the state of your relationship is, Feng Shui can help keep your love feeling like as good as it did when you first found it.
Candace Czarny, ASID, CFM, LEED AP, “Award Winning” Interior Designer, Feng Shui Expert & Author of 20 Minute Feng Shui is continually ranked “Top 10″ in Google and Yahoo. Clients testify of dramatic results!